No offences! I maybe wrong.
After hearing much story about my frenz relationship, whether they r together or they broke up (including myself), i came to realise certain thing which kept me thinking n thinking. Girl n Guy have diff mind set of thinking for relationship, there seem to be a gap between us ( for our age).
The Guy Part!!!
Guys, we will always think tat wat they doing is right, we always tell the other how much effort we make, how hard we try to maintain this relationship where the other party just simply ignore u or throw temper at u, how we control their temper, how we always got scold for no reason or even how we try to make them happy but end up they r not at all. How much we love them ( n our head will start thinking whether the girls actually love us not), we always will think it is worth it for doing all this? N getting back this kind of treatment or no reaction at all. Question n question start to pop up no where when problem arrive, we will feel tat maybe she is asking for too much, maybe she dun love me at all, maybe i m not good enough for her ( but i did my best), maybe she have other pple in mind or is she taking thing for granted? Den we will start questioning ourselves, r all the girls like tat nowaday, wat can we do?
To be honest, this is only how we feel, we nv tot of putting ourselves in their shoes to think at time, we always assume thing n nv question them ( even if we question, some will not speak up). We always blame the other party n hardy look into our own fault, we always feel we done our best ( but come to think about it, is it everytime? or is it just a few time). When the girl break up with the guys, the guys will be the 1 crawling back asking for another chance n start to say sweet thing, ( most of the time tat does not help), we always say we will learn from our mistake when thing happen ( but only a few will do tat).
The Girl Part!!!
Girls, they will feel tat watever the guy is doing may not be thing they wan. Girl will keep almost everything to themselves n they will not share with their partner.But why do girls keep almost everything to themselves even though there’s no such thing as secret between each other in a relationship? Have you guys actually thought of that? It’s not about the trust issue here. It’s just that girls care too much about how will you guys feel upon hearing. Will he think that I don’t love him anymore? Will he think that I’m too much? Will he this will he that… blah blah blah… then in the end, girls ended up with this conclusion: some things are better off left unsaid. So things just keep bottling up in their hearts, day by day, when they finally couldn’t take it anymore, it always just ended up with a break up and not a discussion. And why? Because there are just too many things to say, that they don’t even feel like talking about it. Because once they bombard everything to the guys, the guys will just feel that she is just being unreasonable, she is just trying to find some excuses to break off.. blah blah this and that. Some times girls just want the simplest things that guys often neglect it. Girls will often look at the little things that you did for them. Like, for example, did the guy help you to order your food. Is he late for our date? (girls will be happier if you are early, just to wait for them. Can be easily noticed. They will always smile happily when they see you waiting for them earlier than the meeting time). When you praise them. sayang them. telling them about your day (I think most guys will like the look on their face when you tell her about your day. Where they will laugh with you, or share the troubles you faced with you). Girls do crawl back after break up, but most don’t. Because most will feel that, if you do love me, you wouldn’t have initial the break up. If it’s the girl that initial the break up, it will be, if you really love me, you’ll look for me. Ha? Girl just need to know 1 guy to understand the rest of the guys, but a guy may know every girl but can't even understand 1 of them.
So what the conclusion? U gotta figure out yourself, this is just my comment. =)
After hearing much story about my frenz relationship, whether they r together or they broke up (including myself), i came to realise certain thing which kept me thinking n thinking. Girl n Guy have diff mind set of thinking for relationship, there seem to be a gap between us ( for our age).
The Guy Part!!!
Guys, we will always think tat wat they doing is right, we always tell the other how much effort we make, how hard we try to maintain this relationship where the other party just simply ignore u or throw temper at u, how we control their temper, how we always got scold for no reason or even how we try to make them happy but end up they r not at all. How much we love them ( n our head will start thinking whether the girls actually love us not), we always will think it is worth it for doing all this? N getting back this kind of treatment or no reaction at all. Question n question start to pop up no where when problem arrive, we will feel tat maybe she is asking for too much, maybe she dun love me at all, maybe i m not good enough for her ( but i did my best), maybe she have other pple in mind or is she taking thing for granted? Den we will start questioning ourselves, r all the girls like tat nowaday, wat can we do?
To be honest, this is only how we feel, we nv tot of putting ourselves in their shoes to think at time, we always assume thing n nv question them ( even if we question, some will not speak up). We always blame the other party n hardy look into our own fault, we always feel we done our best ( but come to think about it, is it everytime? or is it just a few time). When the girl break up with the guys, the guys will be the 1 crawling back asking for another chance n start to say sweet thing, ( most of the time tat does not help), we always say we will learn from our mistake when thing happen ( but only a few will do tat).
The Girl Part!!!
Girls, they will feel tat watever the guy is doing may not be thing they wan. Girl will keep almost everything to themselves n they will not share with their partner.But why do girls keep almost everything to themselves even though there’s no such thing as secret between each other in a relationship? Have you guys actually thought of that? It’s not about the trust issue here. It’s just that girls care too much about how will you guys feel upon hearing. Will he think that I don’t love him anymore? Will he think that I’m too much? Will he this will he that… blah blah blah… then in the end, girls ended up with this conclusion: some things are better off left unsaid. So things just keep bottling up in their hearts, day by day, when they finally couldn’t take it anymore, it always just ended up with a break up and not a discussion. And why? Because there are just too many things to say, that they don’t even feel like talking about it. Because once they bombard everything to the guys, the guys will just feel that she is just being unreasonable, she is just trying to find some excuses to break off.. blah blah this and that. Some times girls just want the simplest things that guys often neglect it. Girls will often look at the little things that you did for them. Like, for example, did the guy help you to order your food. Is he late for our date? (girls will be happier if you are early, just to wait for them. Can be easily noticed. They will always smile happily when they see you waiting for them earlier than the meeting time). When you praise them. sayang them. telling them about your day (I think most guys will like the look on their face when you tell her about your day. Where they will laugh with you, or share the troubles you faced with you). Girls do crawl back after break up, but most don’t. Because most will feel that, if you do love me, you wouldn’t have initial the break up. If it’s the girl that initial the break up, it will be, if you really love me, you’ll look for me. Ha? Girl just need to know 1 guy to understand the rest of the guys, but a guy may know every girl but can't even understand 1 of them.
So what the conclusion? U gotta figure out yourself, this is just my comment. =)
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